I'm Zoë, a relationship coach. I work with couples, and with people on their own, who are tired of the same old arguments and want to feel close again.
Good relationships take effort. Mostly that means being honest about your own part, owning it, and getting curious about your partner instead of keeping score.
Fourteen years ago, I packed up my life in the UK, married my holiday romance and started a whole new adventure in Canada. Romantic? Absolutely. A little bonkers? Definitely. But here I am, a wife, a mum to two daughters, and I wouldn't change a thing.
My understanding of relationships didn't come from a textbook. It came from living one. The long-distance years, the compromises, the beautiful chaos of raising children, the inevitable bumps in the road, and learning what it really means to keep choosing each other, especially when it's hard.
I'm a certified relationship coach with Level 1 training in Relational Life Therapy (RLT). I believe in warmth, compassion and telling the truth, even when it's uncomfortable. I won't tiptoe around the hard stuff, and I won't just tell you what you want to hear. I'll gently challenge you, call you forward and help you recognize the patterns that might be standing between you and the connection you crave.
Because real change takes courage. It means getting curious about yourself, owning your part and being willing to do things differently.
Together, we'll dig a little deeper, challenge some old stories and make room for more honesty, intimacy and love. Not a perfect relationship, but a more connected, fulfilling and authentic one.
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“Love is not something we fall into.Get started
It’s something we tend.”
Maybe you're arguing more than you'd like, or you've started to feel more like roommates than partners. Together we'll work out what's really going on and how to get closer again.
Back in Step package
Six 75-minute sessions over about 12 weeks, with email check-ins in between
$1,250
Single session
75 minutes
$225
Ever wonder why you keep ending up in the same kind of relationship? We'll look at where your patterns come from, what you actually need, and go at a pace that feels right for you.
Your Patterns package
Six 60-minute sessions over about 10 weeks
$890
Single session
60 minutes
$160
Prices are in Canadian dollars. Sessions are by video, so you can work with me from anywhere in Canada. Packages can be paid upfront or in two instalments.
No. Therapy can treat mental health conditions and work through trauma. Coaching looks at how you relate to each other now, and what you'll do differently from here. If something comes up that needs a therapist, such as abuse, addiction or trauma, I'll tell you and help you find one.
Yes. Sessions are on video, so you can join from home, anywhere in Canada. All you need is a quiet room and a laptop or phone.
You can start on your own. When you change your side of a pattern, the whole pattern starts to shift, and partners often get curious and join later. Individual coaching is a good place to begin.
We'll spend 30 minutes talking about what's going on and what you'd like to be different. I'll tell you honestly whether I think I can help and how we'd work together. No pressure and no hard sell.
Yes. What you tell me stays between us, unless I believe someone is at risk of serious harm. I'll go through this with you before we start.
Life happens. Give me 48 hours' notice and we'll find another time. Sessions cancelled with less notice count as used. Packages are valid for six months.
Book a free 30-minute call. We'll talk about what's going on and see whether I'm the right person to help. If I'm not, I'll tell you.
Book a free discovery callPrefer to write? Email hello@zoereeves.ca
Certified
Thriving Relationship Coach
through the Center for Thriving Relationships
Level 1 training in Relational Life Therapy (RLT)